Forget what you’ve been told.
As a man, it feels great to wake up every day with a ridiculous amount of positive feelings and self-confidence when you know, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that you are an absolute creature.
There are countless women who feel deep affection, love, and desire for you as a lover and also as a man.
This kind of feeling is insurmountable. You can ask anyone on the surface of the Earth and they’ll tell you the same thing.
But have you also tried thinking about the other side of the coin?
Being a type of man that women and society in general take for granted.
You’re nobody’s business.
Being a man with less ability to attract someone.
Well, this is basically what we’re going to look at here: what makes a man instantly unattractive.
Okay, here are the 6 things that make a man instantly unattractive.
Okay, here are the 6 things that make a man instantly unattractive.
1. Constantly Complaining
I’m going to be brutally honest here: a man who constantly complains is always losing his attractiveness.
You can’t be a real man if you constantly portray yourself as a victim. This is just a red flag.
Complaining never improves anything. Rather, it exposes your weakness in handling things like a man.
In my career as a dating coach, I’ve interviewed hundreds of women, and whenever I asked them what traits make a man instantly unattractive, their response was complaining. Straight to his face!
As a man, you should always be able to solve problems. That’s what we’re made of. You should always have a clear strategy when something comes up, instead of complaining. You create opportunities by taking action and not complaining. I can’t emphasize this enough.
Mario L. Castellanos once said
“What’s the point of complaining about something you have no intention of changing?”
Think about it.
2. Lack of Exercise Routine
I always say it: we have a very serious problem in the modern world. More serious than you imagine.
Most men are just boys. They lack an alpha male with physical strength and martial prowess. This is a real disaster.
Why? Well, well. It’s due to a lack of proper exercise routines. Most don’t go to the gym or do other cardio exercises.
The absence of these qualities makes you instantly unattractive as a man. I have no better words to explain it.
Women always like muscular men with defined physiques. If you have masculinity from a male perspective, you’re sure to attract any single woman on the planet. Go to the gym and build your muscles. This will strengthen your self-esteem and confidence as a man.
3. Zero-Goal Mindset
Believe me, if there’s one thing that makes a man instantly unattractive, it’s this: a man with no goals in life. Life was never meant to be boring.
If you’re always trying to be mediocre, even though you may be incredible, I have no other words to say to you. A moment of silence for you!
Women are always irresistible to men who constantly push the boundaries. They are always attracted to men who never settle for less than they truly deserve. It’s not that complicated. Anyone can have all these qualities.
The great thing about a man with goals and a growth mindset is that it shows he has a clear purpose in life and true leadership qualities. Women are always attracted to these types of men.
4. Chatty Behavior
This is purely a red flag. As a man, you should avoid it immediately. The rule hasn’t changed. You should listen more and talk less. That’s how you take control.
I’ve seen handsome, highly qualified men instantly become unattractive because of their chatty behavior.
As Ralph Waldo Emerson said:
Cities force growth and make men talkative and entertaining, but they make them artificial.
The more you talk as a man, the less you think. And this isn’t attractive at all. The wiser a man is, the less talkative he will be.
Women look for someone who truly listens to them; they always feel comfortable with a calm, attentive man. There’s nothing like a man who talks less and listens more. He’s invincible.
5. When He Stops Giving Compliments
You might say that complimenting someone, especially women, isn’t part of your job as a man, but let me explain and listen carefully. You truly lack the qualities of a first-class man.
This fixed mindset will instantly make you unattractive as a man. Women can’t get along with these types of men. The article “Women Dislike These 5 Types of Men,” covered the topic of compliments in depth.
The most attractive men always compliment, especially women. It’s crucial because it makes them feel seen, wanted, and most of all, appreciated.
Compliments always make someone feel good. You may lack other qualities as a man, but trust me, compliments can go a long way, and your level of attraction will be immense.
Ruthie Lindsay was absolutely right when she said, “If you see something beautiful in someone, say it.” It’s scientifically proven that those who neglect compliments become instantly unattractive.
6. Lack of a sense of humor
It’s no science that women always love a man who makes them feel comfortable, smile, and laugh too.
If you’re funny, you can attract many women into your life. If you’re too serious, I’m sorry. No one wants to get close to a robot. You’ll become instantly unattractive. Period!
We all want to be with someone with a sense of humor. Someone witty yet confident. A robot? No. Thanks!
No one wants to be associated with someone who constantly thinks in linear terms. It doesn’t work that way.
FINAL THOUGHTS:
As you’ve seen, being a valuable and attractive man isn’t as difficult as some people think. It’s simply about implementing those little things we often overlook.
Women always judge a man by certain criteria, and when he doesn’t meet them, the case is closed. They pass the test to the other man.
That’s why you should always be equipped with these things and, when given the opportunity, limit your options. You literally have to stay. There’s no second option.
